On your side, by your side.
Independent, impartial support when it matters most.
You're not alone, even if it feels like it.
Whether you're navigating life without nearby family, overwhelmed by digital tasks, or supporting someone who needs extra help, you're in the right place.
This is a trusted, one-to-one support for people facing life’s practical challenges when no one else is around or able to step in.

What's offered
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Life admin support: Help with paperwork, forms, phone calls, and bookings
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Digital assistance: Support with online banking, GP access, and navigating apps
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Appointment companion: Someone to attend appointments in person or online
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Next of Kin support: Practical presence when trusted family or friends are unavailable
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Power of Attorney: Offered where appropriate, under clear agreement
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Impartial decision making support: Calm, confidential guidance through complex choices
Who this supports
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Individuals without family or trusted friends
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Adult children supporting elderly parents from a distance
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People navigating health, legal or financial systems alone
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Anyone feeling overwhelmed by forms, tech, or life admin
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Those who simply need a steady, trusted presence by their side
Why this matters
Sometimes what’s needed isn’t a friend or a professional adviser, but someone neutral, discreet, and completely focused on what’s best for the individual. With nine years of experience as a financial adviser, this service provides thoughtful, real world help from a place of integrity and care.
Based in Brighton, working across the South East, in person
“Kirsti made everything feel manageable. I’d been ignoring letters, delaying decisions, and feeling ashamed. She sat beside me and got it done. I trust her completely.” Client, age 76
How it works
Call 07900190285 to book a 15 minute introduction call, there is no pressure or selling. If we're a good fit for each other, we'll discuss next steps and timescales, and who else (if anyone) you'd like involved or kept in the loop. You stay in control, we work at your pace. Fees are agreed in advance.
How to start
There's no pressure to have everything sorted out. A short conversation is often the first step towards feeling more confident.
📞 Arrange a free 15-minute call 07900190285
SERVICES
- from £150 per hour
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Additional support is available on an hourly basis.
Whether it’s following up after your appointment or helping with something that’s come up unexpectedly, we’re here to support you with whatever you need.
How advocacy complements professional services
Take Brenda, for example. She had excellent legal support, but needed someone she could trust to help with everyday admin during a difficult time. Someone to walk alongside her and turn advice into action.
TESTIMONIALS
I had no idea how to deal with a situation. I would panic, worried I would say or do something wrong. I trust Kirsti 100%. I have no-one else to turn to that I trust. I hadn't realised my mobile phone company were charging me for a landline phone package - I don't have a landline!
Brenda Basnet
A fantastic result when Kirsti stood by me! Kirsti gave me the confidence and backup to negotiate a very complicated
insurance claim. It enabled me to drive through all the red tape and claim
what I was due. Guiding, Supportive, Focused, Excellent outcome.
Sheila Rantor
I felt completely overwhelmed by my paperwork and financial commitments. It seemed like every time I needed an important document, I couldn’t find it. Kirsti’s organisation changed everything. She patiently went through my insurance policies, bank accounts, and even my utility bills, helping me centralise everything into a system that I now use every day.
Laura
Ready to talk it through? Let’s start with a short call - 07900190285
My
Story

Hello, I’m Kirsti Cox. I’m passionate about helping individuals - particularly seniors - navigate today's digital world. It infuriates me that some businesses take advantage of older people, and I often hear, “Just because I’m old, it doesn’t make me stupid.” This reality fuels my determination to protect seniors and ensure they receive the respect and guidance they deserve.
We are a team of financial professionals and civil servants guided by our strong moral compass, providing compassionate, judgment-free, unbiased support for those seeking trusted, personalised solutions- backed by nine years of financial advisory experience.
Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of supporting friends, neighbours, and clients as they navigated the challenges of life admin and technology. I’ve witnessed firsthand how frustrating and isolating it can be, especially for those who feel left behind by modern digital tools or lack nearby family to assist them. What truly drives me is my deep frustration with how often people are taken advantage of simply because they aren’t as tech-savvy as younger generations.
I understand how daunting it can feel when everything requires an app, a password, or an online form. I also know how uncomfortable it is to repeatedly ask family for help—or how isolating it feels when there’s no one to turn to. That’s why I created Kirsti Cox Advocacy: to provide trusted, professional support tailored to your unique needs, ensuring you feel empowered and back in control of your life.
If this resonates with you, I invite you to get in touch to explore how I can support you. Whether you’re interested in one of my bespoke services or simply want to learn more, I’m here to help.
Contact me today for a no-pressure, confidential conversation about your needs and how I can assist you.